I'm not concerned with how the site is doing. We are in a saturated market and have faced opposition from it since the beginning. But that's okay. We all know that the SE approach is superior.
I also participated in the beta for Christianity.SE. That site experienced similar problems that we have here. It took over a year for them to reach critical mass. And there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
Ask quality questions. Provide quality answers. Vote. Keep doing what you're doing. Participate according to your own desires.
We are doing great.